becoming a single mom ?

Im 6mos pregnant and sadly boyfriend broke up with me. Bagonaging kami i knew na meron na siya 1 anak at break n cla ng girl. But i still continued the relationship kasi sabi nya he wants to settle down na daw etc. When i found out that i was pregnant he got so sad and admitted that he has 5 more children from 3 diff women. I was so hurt. But gave him another chance coz i was already pregnant. Just last week, i found out a woman's ig account with a photo of her and my bf (dated feb 2020) and recent photos of the girl is with him last nov 2019. I think cla pa but he was insisting na hindi na. I got so hurt that i told him lots of hurtful words (below the belt na) i broke up with him and he immediately accepted the next day. It was just easy for him to end our relationship in this pregnancy period at my lockdown pa. ? I feel so depress po at crying most of the time since the day i got pregnant. Im afraid it will affect the baby

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Hi sis! Ang bf ko din may anak na and hiwalay na sila. Unfortunately, may naging problem kami at the first month sa relationship namin Kasi he accused me of cheating and until now Hindi Niya padin ako pinapatawad. Until such time nagkahiwalay kami for work and 5 months preggy na ako. Nakipag break siya dahil naalala daw Niya Ang ginawa ko kahit Wala namang evidence huhu. At first Hindi ko matanggap Kasi I want a complete family and he wants to settle narin daw. Whole day akong umiyak non tapos naisip ko hahayaan ko nalang siya. At least may baby na ako and Kaya ko Namang buhayin. After two days siya na Ang nag sorry and promised me Hindi na makikipaghiwalay. But I told him na Hindi na ako umaasa pa sa marriage and Hindi ko gagamitin last name Niya para Kay baby. I couldn't imagine na Kaya niyang makipag break in time na malaki na si baby and may virus pa. I'd realize the more we showed our vulnerability the more they take us for granted. Let show them we can live and be happy without them. 💗

Magbasa pa
6y ago

Sis thank you sa advice na wag ng umasa sa knya..opo nagdadasal nmn po ako lagi. Kaso hndi nya winala connection namin supportive p rin xa sa akin kahit hiwalay na kami yun nga lang nakakaasa. Kya nhihirapan din ako sa ngayon. Gusto ko mgmove on pro ayw nyang lumayo