becoming a single mom ?

Im 6mos pregnant and sadly boyfriend broke up with me. Bagonaging kami i knew na meron na siya 1 anak at break n cla ng girl. But i still continued the relationship kasi sabi nya he wants to settle down na daw etc. When i found out that i was pregnant he got so sad and admitted that he has 5 more children from 3 diff women. I was so hurt. But gave him another chance coz i was already pregnant. Just last week, i found out a woman's ig account with a photo of her and my bf (dated feb 2020) and recent photos of the girl is with him last nov 2019. I think cla pa but he was insisting na hindi na. I got so hurt that i told him lots of hurtful words (below the belt na) i broke up with him and he immediately accepted the next day. It was just easy for him to end our relationship in this pregnancy period at my lockdown pa. ? I feel so depress po at crying most of the time since the day i got pregnant. Im afraid it will affect the baby

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Let go mo na mommy, hindi naman po tayo mauubusan ng lalaki sa mundo. Kesa piliin mo sya, lagi kang mag worry sa pagloloko nya. Suggestion lang mommy ha, paglabas ng baby mo, wag mong isunod sa surname nya ng mawalan sya ng karapatan sa bata gaya ng ginawa nya sayo. hindi tama yang ginagawa nya para madala sya pagdating sa huli.

Magbasa pa
6y ago

If naghabol sya mommy, pa tulfo mo. Makakahanap ka ng much better na lalaki kesa sa kanya lilipas din yang pagmamahal mo sa kanya. Wag ka lang maging marupok, wag na magpadala sa magagandang pangako kase yung situation mo ngayon hindi madali. Kaya dumadami ang ganyang klase ng lalaki kase baka may nagto tolerate din sa kanila. Hindi sa dami ng anak binabase ang pagka lalaki, nasa pagmamahal at pagrespeto nya sa babae yan kung may kapatid man syang babae isipin nalang nya kung ganyan din nangyare sa sitwasyon mo. Sa babae din sya nanggaling kaya dapat may respeto man lang sya ngayon. Cheer lang kita mommy, ayoko na ma stress ka. Pray lang kay God for guidance kakayanin mo yan.