bed rest

hi im on my 11 weeks now with subchorionic hemorrhage. im staying with my in laws during weekdays because they have a yaya. my husband works on a night shift. the thing is mil says " buti pa si nanay mo matyaga mag alaga ng bata ako hindi na talaga. " i cant stay with my parent's house during weekdays because we don't have yaya there. ever since na bed rest ako i cant help her sa chores. im supposed to be complete bed rest but since im here in my in laws.their yaya doesn't help at all.i have to wake up early to prepare their food kase kina mil iba iba sila oras kumain plus brunch na sila nakain, so the lunch is also late . i cant stand na magutom two kids ko si in short nagawa ako. lately my mil has habbit of sleeping very late as in 4 am tapos now she says nataas daw ang bp nya.hubby only helps kapag nagising na sya.im not supposed to experience stress pero lately nastress ako talaga sa kanila.i don't know if all the people in my in law's house understand the meaning of complete bed rest. :-(

Mary Rose Yague

Mummy of 2 sweet junior/mompreneur/ financial advisor

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siguro since nakikitira tayo syempre Yung pakikisama di nawawala, pero syempre Sana maintindhan nila. pero di mo Naman maiwasan na mag isip kaya ma stress ka talaga. don't be stress that much mamshie because it's can't help you. lawakan nlng natin pag iintindihan at pakikisama na Wala sila masabi sayo . kaso nga lng gumawaka ng Tama o Mali may masasabi parin sila .

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ahm sabi mo wala kaung yaya sa inyo, pero un mom mo d ka ba nya aalagaan if andun ka sa inyo? ako kc wala kaming yaya un momy and dady ko lang nagaasikaso sakin and atleast doon alam nla needs mo..o kaya naman talk to ur husband and sabihin mo na sabihan un yaya na isama ka sa asikasuhin.

I've already discussed this matter with him. thru gumawa ka man ng tama ot mali may masasabi talaga. right now im just waiting for my mom punta kmi ob ko ryt now.