I think i am very irritated and annoyed with me mum. She is kind of possessive towards my no1. Whenever we carry no1, somehow she will snatch it away from us and said that baby doesnt want to be with us, especially when baby whines/just cry, she will immediately snatch the baby away. Sometimes she even show me black faces for making baby cry. I feel like wth. At times she can for nth, make baby cry thinking that when baby cries are very cute, then thereafter tried to pacify baby and said like grandma loves you. Mum kinda show like she is the parent of my no1 rather than us. Hubby already feeling kind of pek chek. Im stucked in between i also dono what can/should i do. Jus feeling very frustrated at times.

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My mom or mil did not snatch my babies from me. But sometimes when I place them in the yaolan, they will say babies not ready to sleep yet and so they will carry babies up and then say to the babies that daddy and mummy are “very bad..ah Ma is better...” This behaviour pisses me off but I just take it in cos I know that ultimately they have good intentions for the babies. I am also confident that my babies know that daddy and mummy are good to them (we spend time bonding with them whenever we can) so there is no need for any ill feelings towards my mum or mil.

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Home Random Talk i think i very irritated annoyed with mum kind possessive towards no1 whenever carry no1 somehow snatch away from said that baby doesnt want with especially when baby whines cry immediately snatch baby away sometimes show black faces making baby cry i feel like wth times nth make baby cry thinking that when baby cries very cute then thereafter tried pacify baby said like grandma loves mum kinda show like parent no1 rather than hubby already fee