I suspect my single friend is pregnant... she's looking a little bloated on her face and she has been avoiding sashimi (which is her faveeee!) and complains that her colleague's perfume stinks when she used to say it was one of the nicest scent. I'm not sure how to ask without sounding like a prick. Any suggestions?

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Maybe she is not comfortable to announce yet. Some people have beliefs that only can announce after 1st trimester.
If she feels like letting you know, she will and there's no need to ask.
I agree. Be more sensitive and let her tell you in due time. If you're not sure how to ask, then don't ask.
Don't be so kpoh lah. She will tell you when the time is right. There are many women who have gone through miscarriages before, so they prefer to just not talk about it till after the first trimester.
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Is it important to know? I'm sure they will say when they are ready and if they don't want to there must be a reason behind it. :)