I stumbled upon some WhatsApp messages on my Husband's phone. He was in BKK last weekend. The content to his friends was the recommendation of a dirty massage parlour in BKK where he said he "just goes for a shower". I know that this massage parlour is definitely a sleazy one (Google and message content says so). Our child is barely 4mths. He usually deletes his messages and I didn't manage to save them. How would anyone go about this?

so sorry to hear this. men face a lot of temptations. SAHMs don't beat yourself up! He chose you first! Remember that. If you let yourself slip up by being too engrossed with kids, adjust a little. Even if they are bad at it; invite them to play a bigger part in parenting. arrange for childcare and go on a date. text him cute photos and kind thoughts each day. Many men turn around! Forgive and move on to better things. Try it first! Your children will see your courage and commitment and wisdom and be better for it! TAKE CARE! HUGS. (wait a min, why does my profile say 'hoping for a child'? I am a SAH-workingM with 2 kids leh!)