I stumbled upon some WhatsApp messages on my Husband's phone. He was in BKK last weekend. The content to his friends was the recommendation of a dirty massage parlour in BKK where he said he "just goes for a shower". I know that this massage parlour is definitely a sleazy one (Google and message content says so). Our child is barely 4mths. He usually deletes his messages and I didn't manage to save them. How would anyone go about this?

My husband has a mistress openly now. Like u I found out his Watsapp msgs and confronted him. I'm do not want a divorce becoz of the kids, initially unhappy everyday but now I feel better by not bothering abt what he does outside. I know marriage shouldn't be like this, I dream of a happy family & a loving husband but sadly my Hb has changed. Indeed I have a big heart to tolerate all these unfaithness becoz I love my kids too much, I want them to have daddy around. When they are older and understand, I may leave. I duno...