I stumbled upon some WhatsApp messages on my Husband's phone. He was in BKK last weekend. The content to his friends was the recommendation of a dirty massage parlour in BKK where he said he "just goes for a shower". I know that this massage parlour is definitely a sleazy one (Google and message content says so). Our child is barely 4mths. He usually deletes his messages and I didn't manage to save them. How would anyone go about this?

I am a SAHM too. I occasionally check my husband's phone. He has 100% access to my phone too. I am not ashamed of doing that. He knows I do that, and he has nothing to hide anyway so he has never stopped me. I feel better doing that, although I believe my husband is not the kind that will cheat on me. I do trust my husband, but I just want to make sure. I don't want to wait till my Husband cheats on me, I found out and divorce and then blame myself why did I trust him so much. So I believed things could be prevented if I found out earlier. If it's just a one time thing, and he's has good records so far then I'll just take it as I don't know. Like if he's a good father and usually a good husband. Otherwise if it's happening again and again I don't see a point being married to a man like that.