I stumbled upon some WhatsApp messages on my Husband's phone. He was in BKK last weekend. The content to his friends was the recommendation of a dirty massage parlour in BKK where he said he "just goes for a shower". I know that this massage parlour is definitely a sleazy one (Google and message content says so). Our child is barely 4mths. He usually deletes his messages and I didn't manage to save them. How would anyone go about this?

To be honest, what do u want to do? 1) divorce 2) stay on If u choose to divorce go ahead. If stay on, warn him never to do it again show him how much he meant to u and the baby. Because of face value or business purpose, he has to agree to follow his friends to the sleazy place. It can be true that he really went there just for a shower. And because he knows u are "stumbling" on his text, that's another reason he is constantly deleting any message be it harmful or harmless. Ultimately it's the trust between the both of u.