I stumbled upon some WhatsApp messages on my Husband's phone. He was in BKK last weekend. The content to his friends was the recommendation of a dirty massage parlour in BKK where he said he "just goes for a shower". I know that this massage parlour is definitely a sleazy one (Google and message content says so). Our child is barely 4mths. He usually deletes his messages and I didn't manage to save them. How would anyone go about this?

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Hey mama, I am sorry that this happened. It sucks and I feel for you. A woman's instinct is usually spot on. I don't think you need evidence. You have two choices here. To stay or to leave him. It really depends on you now. If you stay, can you forgive him? If you leave him, how will you feel once your anger subsided? Personally, I would not be able to get over such an indiscretion and my Husband knows it. So if this indeed happened I would choose to leave.

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9y ago

Thanks. It's happened before and I was so emotional when I confronted him which made me look like I was making things up. I'm a lot calmer this time round and high five ! I'd choose to leave. I however have no substantial basis on leaving because it's my word against his now

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Home Random Talk i stumbled upon some whatsapp messages husband phone was in bkk last weekend content friends was recommendation dirty massage parlour in bkk where said goes shower i know that massage parlour definitely sleazy google message content says child barely 4mths usually deletes messages i didnt mange save them how anyone go about