Everything I do is wrong :(

I shared this Photo of my son eating cake on facebook a while ago. okay naman lahat until 2 of my aunties told me na "bat ganyan kumain ang anak mo dapat di ganyan. dapat turuan mo sya ng tama". as for me kasi I just want to let him explore textures and syempre try new food kasi 2 years old na sya di pa sya kumakain ng solids. mali ba talaga ko? kasi pag may ginagawa ako para sa kanya lagi nalang may mali laging may negative na nasasabi :(