I am a sahm. During pregnancy my weight is 54.4kg. I am a small build women. Before pregnancy my weight is 40kg. After I delivery, Nd all the taking care of my LO my weight reduce to 45kg. It's up and down like 44kg or 45kg and my family member keep saying that I am not eating well, I am too stress taking care of kids. I nv eat this and that. I am so tired hearing all this. I did eat but not like a lot that kind. I not sure is.it true that sahm is more easy to look tired and weight lost faster? Everyone just look at me thinking I only let my son eat nv look after myself. I know they care that's why they say this, but sometime too much of this question makes me want to blow up. Any mummies can teach me what to eat to grow more fats so I won't let my family think I am suffering.. I am tired having to explain to everyone is it I never eat.....

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I'm used to it. I'm a ftwm with no helper. Every meet up with my family, relatives or friends, they will definitely say 'Y r u getting more n more skinny!' Your face 'green green' no blood! R u sick?' I have to explain over and over again I'm eating well just that my metabolism issue, tiredness and gotta take care kids after work so I dun really gain weight. I looked into the mirror one day n I realised I looked pale even after I draw my brows & eyeliner. My ah Ma ask me to brew tonics to 补 And I listen to her. Once or twice a week I eat black chicken with herbs. Once a month after Menses I brew 八珍汤. I eat 白凤丸too! I'm still slim but I look healthier now. Try it. Make up & skincare only 治标,进补才能治本. Take care!

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