I really hate my mother in law. She gets jealous easily. She made such a big fuss and cried when my hubby gave me a gift for wedding anniversary. My hubby is at his wits end. We bring my in laws out regularly and buy things for her occasionally too. How do I tell her to grow up?

This is a very tricky situation. I think she might feel insecure towards your hubby. You can get your hubby to talk to your MIL and let him reassure your MIL that both of you still love her very much. Also, always show appreciation of her help and value her opinions so she will feel more secured.