I really need some advice. Few days before giving birth to my LO, my husband asked me to abort just because he say he does not have money to pay and find it very stressful etc. But now, I've given birth and still on confinement, to be counted as those unlucky ones, I've infections, fever etc. Even after knowing I'm having infections, fever, etc, my husband doesn't even give a damn and even ask me to go work to earn my own medical bill. I really find this marriage hopeless as he also doesn't show any respect to my parents and me. Now that I've given birth, I have a feeling if I were to mention divorce or anything, he gonna be snatching my LO from me. What should I do? He's not a Singaporean, but my LO is. And he intend to bring my LO back to his country and never comes back if I refuse to let my LO to even go back once. Upon hearing this, as a mum, how would I even dare to let my LO go back for just even once? What should I do?

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Sorry to hear that. On the note for application for any travel document for a child, you'll need the child's BC as a form of identification . Keep your child's BC away safely (better if it is out of the house) from him n do not apply a Singapore ppt for the child. A Singapore citizen needs not own a passport if he / she is not travelling. Your husband can apply passport for the baby as a child below 21 can have dual citizen. But he'd need the child's BC to do so. Hope this helps. Take care n be strong for your child

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