Dear mummy, be strong for your child. Nobody needs u more than your child now. You are the world to him/her.
Judging from what your husband said about aborting the baby just days before it was born, I feel that he is not the ideal person to look after your child. Do all u can to safeguard ur LO. Before i had my baby, i was a shy n timid person. But after i had my baby, i started being braver, for the sake of my LO. I tell myself if i don't protect him, who in the world is going to?
I would just like to share with you what i would do if i were u.
- i would not continue to live with a timebomb who may take my LO away from me if the opportunity arise. I cannot imagine losing my LO and never seeing him again. Can you also imagine the stress that i would be under day in and day out. Never a day will i be happy or feel at ease in this unhappy marriage. I can only foresee a breakdown n depression ahead of me in the long term. If that happens, custody definitely goes to husband...
- if my husband does not love me anymore, i would end the marriage. I will work to support my LO and be both mother n father to him. Staying in an unhappy marriage may not be beneficial to the child, it can be detrimental if the family is abusive or without ĺove. I will first find a stable job after confinement before divorcing so my chances of getting the child would be higher. YOU deserve so much better! Don't stay in a loveless or abusive marriage.
That's what i feel n what i would do.
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