I really need some advice. Few days before giving birth to my LO, my husband asked me to abort just because he say he does not have money to pay and find it very stressful etc. But now, I've given birth and still on confinement, to be counted as those unlucky ones, I've infections, fever etc. Even after knowing I'm having infections, fever, etc, my husband doesn't even give a damn and even ask me to go work to earn my own medical bill. I really find this marriage hopeless as he also doesn't show any respect to my parents and me. Now that I've given birth, I have a feeling if I were to mention divorce or anything, he gonna be snatching my LO from me. What should I do? He's not a Singaporean, but my LO is. And he intend to bring my LO back to his country and never comes back if I refuse to let my LO to even go back once. Upon hearing this, as a mum, how would I even dare to let my LO go back for just even once? What should I do?

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Every household has her own problems. I am a new Daddy. If you are fine with my sharing. What would I do if I am you? 1. Though times are tough with many thoughts running. Energise back during this confinement period. It's for the Long run for the life ahead. 2. Make the passport of LO and safekeep. 3. All document related to LO to be safekept. 4. Discuss with family about returning to work and the arrangement of baby sitting. 5. All hospitalisation bills in Singapore should have compassionate reason to provide instalment or medical assistance. Regardless of who you are, there are always support from forum groups for advices and emotional support, because you are a human like us except in different situations. STAY POSITIVE.

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