I really need some advice. Few days before giving birth to my LO, my husband asked me to abort just because he say he does not have money to pay and find it very stressful etc. But now, I've given birth and still on confinement, to be counted as those unlucky ones, I've infections, fever etc. Even after knowing I'm having infections, fever, etc, my husband doesn't even give a damn and even ask me to go work to earn my own medical bill. I really find this marriage hopeless as he also doesn't show any respect to my parents and me. Now that I've given birth, I have a feeling if I were to mention divorce or anything, he gonna be snatching my LO from me. What should I do? He's not a Singaporean, but my LO is. And he intend to bring my LO back to his country and never comes back if I refuse to let my LO to even go back once. Upon hearing this, as a mum, how would I even dare to let my LO go back for just even once? What should I do?

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1. Do passport for him (don't tell him) and keep in safe 2. Ask your parents if they support you. If yes, ask if they can help you with Taking care baby. 3. Go out and look for job 4. Treat him like transparent. 5. Settle your financial burden first and baby to be settle down. 6. If you need to seperate from him, you will be the main custody if you can prove your financially sound.

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