I am so Piss off with my grandma in law

I am so Piss off with my grandma in law. My husband don't have a mother but he have a grandma. She like to control things we do. She will ask my husband dose I spent a lot of money? Because I am a sahm, she will ask him how much cpf I come out for my new bto all this.. money to his grandma is like so important. And before I give birth she already told me after birth go work and earn money to pay house to lighten my husband burden. But then my husband told me to stay home take care baby because I go work also earn not that much put baby in Infant care is expensive. I sometime see she so old I ignore. But she will want to know this know that.. I so sian to go visit her.