I am new to hiring a helper, mainly to help out with my LO.. how should I arrange at meal time esp when eating out? Should I eat first, or let my helper eat first? I reckon that she should eat first, since she is eating faster than me.. while I take care of LO.. also I can have a longer time to eat.. otherwise if I eat first, she has to wait on a long time to eat.. but my hubby find it werid to eat with her first..

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While there's no right or wrong here. If you are comfortable with your helper eating first than why not? It's your choice and you know it better which way is good for your child. If you are not hungry, I feel its definitely okay for your helper to eat first.