Hi I m completed 8 years of my marriage we have two daughters, but we fight with each other so many times. He is so much busy with his day to day work that he has no time for me and because of this I get frustrated n we start fighting. I badly need him but he don't understand what should I do?

I think, it doesn't actually matter for how long a couple is married, as discord can arise at any point of time in a marriage be it one year old or 20 year old. You know, I will tell you from my personal experience that what works for me is communication. And what doesn't work for me is, lack of communication. When both of us fight, we at times stop talking to each other. And that is the worst that happens in a marriage. I think you guys need to sit and talk. Since, he is your husband, and hiding it from him that you need him badly doesn't solve anything. So, tell him up straight that you need him. Have a pact sort of thing that whenever he will come back from work, you guys will not sleep till you have not spent at least half an hour of alone time. I mean you can work on things that are lacking in your life and improve them. Rest, I think you must engage yourself in some activity or something that keeps you busy. That is good for your personal growth as well. Or you can start reading. Look for good novels and read whatever genre interest you.