in Laws

i live with in laws, together with the sister in law and brother in law. in one house the only property we have is our room. i recently gave birth. it's not that im selfish or anything when they borrow my baby, but i get irritated so easily. especially if they borrow without washing their hands, or just arrived home. sometimes the mother in law will tell me to go to eat then she will later pass it with the daughter who is single. she is also very rude and demanding when i was pregnant. i Always get irritated coz when they borrow my baby they wait till he cry before they will return it to me,fussing or crying heavily. any tips or anyone have the same experience?

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I feel you! Mahilig pa yan si mil kunin si baby tpos bbgay kay sil or pupuntahan pa sa room. Kung gusto nya makita pamangkin nya puntahan nya sa room hndi yun ihahatid pa knya. Feeling ata ng nanay nya anak nya yun at taga alaga ako. And its possible that what you feel is post partrum depression. Same na same umiiyak ako before halos everyday. Lahat ng gawin nila naiinis ako ksi feeling ko pinapangunahan ako pagdating kay baby. Syenpre as a first time mom gusto natin tyo gumwa lahat and tyo masusunod. Pag tumutulong sila appreciated naman tlga pero yun help na bnbgay nila is yun way nlng hndi yun help na kelangan mo. Sa chinese ksi when u gave birth bawal maligo for one month kht basa kamay bawal kinukuha nila si baby sakin pra makapag wash ako ng bottle instead of sila gumwa nun (oo gamit ng anak ko dpt ako maghugas pero gets yun yong help na kelangan ko) tpos pag maghihulamos ako sabhb bawal magbasa eh anong point nun naghuhugas nga ako ng bote.

Magbasa pa
2y ago

same na same tayo 🙁

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Hi! I'm living with my inlaws, from mother, father, brother and sis in law + my Hubby's tita, for 5 years already, postpartum po, normal po nararamdaman po, you can talk to your hubby para siya magsabi sa inlaws mo what you feel, if you can, be frank na lang, but in a nice way mo sabihin.. it's for your lo's sake.. or maglagay ka sa mga pwesto ng bahay ng alcohol palagi.. para if they want to hold your lo, mag alcohol muna.. magiging ok din kayo, minsan need mo lang sabihan sila pero sa magandang tono.. ikaw naman kasi ang mas mahihirapan kasi ikaw ang nanay.. kaya mas mabuting kausapin mo si hubby mo

Magbasa pa
2y ago

No not selfish at all. Mahirap na panahon ngyn kung ano ano virus na meron especially newborn mbilis kapitan ng sakit. Dapat alam Nila yan. Nkkainis lng mnsn mga mil nagmamagaling hilis pa sbhn na “noon sa mga anak ko ganyan ganto gnwa ko”