in Laws

i live with in laws, together with the sister in law and brother in law. in one house the only property we have is our room. i recently gave birth. it's not that im selfish or anything when they borrow my baby, but i get irritated so easily. especially if they borrow without washing their hands, or just arrived home. sometimes the mother in law will tell me to go to eat then she will later pass it with the daughter who is single. she is also very rude and demanding when i was pregnant. i Always get irritated coz when they borrow my baby they wait till he cry before they will return it to me,fussing or crying heavily. any tips or anyone have the same experience?

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Hi! I'm living with my inlaws, from mother, father, brother and sis in law + my Hubby's tita, for 5 years already, postpartum po, normal po nararamdaman po, you can talk to your hubby para siya magsabi sa inlaws mo what you feel, if you can, be frank na lang, but in a nice way mo sabihin.. it's for your lo's sake.. or maglagay ka sa mga pwesto ng bahay ng alcohol palagi.. para if they want to hold your lo, mag alcohol muna.. magiging ok din kayo, minsan need mo lang sabihan sila pero sa magandang tono.. ikaw naman kasi ang mas mahihirapan kasi ikaw ang nanay.. kaya mas mabuting kausapin mo si hubby mo

Magbasa pa
4y ago

No not selfish at all. Mahirap na panahon ngyn kung ano ano virus na meron especially newborn mbilis kapitan ng sakit. Dapat alam Nila yan. Nkkainis lng mnsn mga mil nagmamagaling hilis pa sbhn na “noon sa mga anak ko ganyan ganto gnwa ko”