do u prefer to have ur mil as ur confinement lady?

CL better, they work for us and get thungs done. MIL we probably have alot to listen to her. It depends on each individual as well. My mil is very uncontrolling and easy going with her direct children, but towards their spouse she is quite controlling... ya , abit double standaed but i see conflict will come, so i alrdy engaged a CL