I want a Second baby - hubby doesn’t want one
I have spoken, cried, cajoled, pleased, begged, everything in my power to try to convince him. He is dead set against it. It’s been 2 years and he simply refuses. He said one is more than enough. I stopped birth control but he uses a condom. How do I get pregnant anyway? Can I poke holes in the condom. Does that work? Update: I have tried to talk to him till the cows go home, counselling also done, heart to heart as well. Pls give some other suggestion
Lol i oso get annoyed reading simple ‘talk to your spouse/go to PD’ comments spewing around the forum, without elaborating on further details. I mean, wheres the added value and is it constructive to just type a comment like that, might as well dun comment lo.. Anyway, back to your case, does he believe in fengshui? Or anything that he believes in that u can tie your narrative in. Eh ppl say got 2 kids better cos ‘shuang’. Or if u already has a girl, it’s commonly known the happiest family consists of 2 girls. This one research says one, not me. How about interference from the almighty inlaws? Can they help?
Read moreI think you need to talk to him nicely and find out the reason why he doesn’t want a 2nd child. Pls don’t resort to using those underhand method, even if u successfully get pregnant, what’s the point if he doesn’t love the 2nd child? And maybe blame you for it.
If u poke holes in condom n get pregnant successfully, u gonna bear all the responsibilities? If yes then go ahead since its a one sided wish and if its also a one sided responsibility it is very reasonable
Respect your husband. He might not be able to afford financially. Having a kid is not just a responsibility of 1 but both parents. Talk things out between each other and try to give him time. 😊
Really need to understand what is it blocking him emotionally.. Don't use poking holes la.. Haha.. Cause if things go bad it may turn into a divorce instead.
Sorry to hear this. But rather than doing underhand methods, why not talk to him nicely? Or maybe go thru a marriage counseling session together? 😊
talk to him and understand his reasons. dont need to stoop so low.
Maybe have to understand his reason why doesn't want
A happy marriage is important. Must mutually consent
Need both parties to agree in order to have number 2