I want a Second baby - hubby doesn’t want one

I have spoken, cried, cajoled, pleased, begged, everything in my power to try to convince him. He is dead set against it. It’s been 2 years and he simply refuses. He said one is more than enough. I stopped birth control but he uses a condom. How do I get pregnant anyway? Can I poke holes in the condom. Does that work? Update: I have tried to talk to him till the cows go home, counselling also done, heart to heart as well. Pls give some other suggestion

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Lol i oso get annoyed reading simple ‘talk to your spouse/go to PD’ comments spewing around the forum, without elaborating on further details. I mean, wheres the added value and is it constructive to just type a comment like that, might as well dun comment lo.. Anyway, back to your case, does he believe in fengshui? Or anything that he believes in that u can tie your narrative in. Eh ppl say got 2 kids better cos ‘shuang’. Or if u already has a girl, it’s commonly known the happiest family consists of 2 girls. This one research says one, not me. How about interference from the almighty inlaws? Can they help?

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