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Oh dear.. Must have been very tough on you. How about letting your husband take over the mummy duties for just a couple of hours while you get some much needed me-time? I'm sure having to deal with a little one who has fallen ill is already very tiring and worrying for you. In addition, you are under the weather as well. :( Try (I know it's almost impossible) not to take what your husband said to heart. Sometimes, the male species (no offense to the other daddies here) are simply less tactful with words. I suspect he may simply be offering an explanation but did not bother to phrase his words nicely (it happens..). Anyhow, can only offer you a virtual hug. Hang in there!! You are a mummy, not a super hero! Hope you can get some time for yourself soon!!
I can feel you, mummy. Jia you! It is definitely not an easy task for you to take care of your 3 kids especially when they are sick as all might have different symptoms and require different care. Moreover, you are in the recovery stage and actually not so wise to take care of them too as you might either catch the virus from them and all 4 of you are sick together. You need to really have enough rest and drink adequate water. Have a good talk with hubby and share with him what is going on everyday.
I can understand you. It is definitely not an easy job especially when all the kids fall sick include yourself. Try to let your husband take care the kids for 2 to 3 hours, he might understand you better. Always take a deep breath when you feel down or sad. It will make you feel better. You are indeed a great mum! Jia you.
Tell him how stressful you are to handle 3kids especially a sick one which ur health and immune will deteriorate with stress and not enough rest. if he thinks it is so easy then why don't he try to take leave to take care when next time the kids are not well. or pass to him during the weekends then he knows the taste.
Seen your husband making remake that you doing this and that wrong. Try say to your husband can you help to look after 1 of your kids. Sometime man wouldn't think so much that we mother have a lot of work to do. Try slowly by telling him to take care 1 of them. Let them try and by teaching them how to be a father.
OMG! Don't be despair and be positive instead. Hubby usually aren't aware of what we do or go through cos they aren't in our shoes. We don't work outside and we won't understand their work too much too. We r both helping each other in a way or another. Be positive mummy. U can do it.
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