I hate my Wife. She's a bitch. I would like to get a divorce But she's constantly threatening to run away with the kids and Ensure I never see them again. She also keeps telling the kids what a loser I am and that I am a deadbeat dad. I love my kids from the bottom of my heart and i feel so helpless in this situation.

Is there any possibility that she might be mentally ill after having children? Do get her checked out if so. I advise counselling to give your marriage one last shot before calling it quits. In a divorce, it's up to the court to decide who gets custody and who will be the main caregiver. It's a complicated process, but it has to be done if the children are suffering as a result of your toxic relationship. http://www.fycs.org/index.cfm?GPID=25 http://www.carecorner.org.sg/cccc.html