Tales of an ignorant coworker

I gave up talking to my partner asking her to be more understanding with my situation - 27 weeks pregnant with partial placenta previa. Aside from her lack of understanding, she is VERY calculative - saying she did this so I HAVE TO DO THIS (requires bending) Which i said I cannot...She then blurted well I also cannot bec I just did this.! I gave up. Dont want to school her what she lacks. Hais 21 yr old so wasted.