I feel so guilty now. Today is the first time I let my lo tried fm. She have been on bm since birth. She's 1 years old now.. The feeling in me, sucks.. ?
I guess for a mom who has been breastfeeding all this while it is normal to feel this way. But you did it for a year and that's already very commendable! My gal had exclusive bm for only one month and I gave up coz of clogged ducts etc issue. When she falls sick I will tell guilty and wonder is it because I did not give her bm. But I have soon gotten over this as there are many other things to worry about. That said as a consolation to you my bro and me were never breastfed and I have always been a strong and healthy baby and girl when growing up :) good job mommy.
Read moreYou are doing a good job in exclusive breastfeeding already! Although I am extended breastfeeding myself, I can't even exclusive breastfeed as my supply is not overwhelming enough and I have to use 1 tin of FM per month. I am not sure what makes you got pressurize to feed FM, but if LO shows no sign of stopping feeding on BM, you dont have to introduce FM too.
Read moreI tried v hard to give bm but was on mix feed from within 1 month. Felt bad but then again my husband reminded me - "what's wrong with it? We tried our best. Fm ain't that bad. We and our siblings all grew up on fm and we are all well and alive". Anyways if u want, u can don't give fm but give fresh milk and a varied diet also can
Read moreDont Feel bad, you have done a good job for breastfeeding your LO till 1 year old. You should give a pat on your shoulder instead :) By the way, after 1 year old your LO can drink fresh milk already, so don’t worry and feel bad of having to stop breastfeeding, now all the nutrients should come from solid food. :)
Read moreI feel u as well, I almost wanted to cry when I had to stop bf when lo was 8 months old due to low supply but eventually I understand that lo will one day had to stop bf and eat solid food , by then lo will be less on fm. Then I try to don't take it too hard.
You've done a great job for being able to bf LO till 1 year old :) You can consider giving her fresh milk/full cream milk powder instead of formula milk. After 1 year old, formula milk is not neccessary alrdy.
don't be too hard on urself. you gave her 1year of bm. It's already a job well done! Many mummy is unable to do so! How is your daughter adapting fm? Mine rejects fm so i had to resort to packet milk
Read moreI used to feel the same too! It's normal. :) now I'm over it already, I told myself I've done my best to provide him with one year of Bm :) now he takes fresh milk too and I'm totally cool with it .
U have done a good job. Tell urself u are saving ur milk for #2! Anyway by 1 yr old milk won't be their main source of nutrients already
Breastfeeding is tough, you did it for a year! Give yourself a pat on the back. Don't put yourself down. It will get better =)
Mama of 1 sunny prince