I am wondering why my wife keeps saying that being a stay at home mum is such hard work. I am not trolling here - but i frankly dont understand. Seems simple enough to me. I have taken care of my kids and home all weekend before and it's definitely no where as stressful as having a job. Our kid is 11 months and is formula fed. We live in a 4 rm flat.

By taking care do you mean just bottle feed them and play with them when needed? Hmm..There’s a lot more to do and you have to know as sahm we re facing the ceiling and walls there’s hidden stress accumulated and we have no one to talk to , can build up stress in a way too . And laundry , cooking , making baby sleep , bathe him , cleaning up and tidying up 24/7 and we don’t really have proper rest and sleep , those restless night making us feeling more tired too..