I am wondering why my wife keeps saying that being a stay at home mum is such hard work. I am not trolling here - but i frankly dont understand. Seems simple enough to me. I have taken care of my kids and home all weekend before and it's definitely no where as stressful as having a job. Our kid is 11 months and is formula fed. We live in a 4 rm flat.

It’s easy to pass judgement when you are not in her shoes. Swop your role with her for 2 weeks but in these 2 weeks, you need to ensure you do exactly everything she does at home without her help including cleaning, planning family meals, taking care of the baby etc etc. Hopefully by then you’ll have a whole new appreciation for her just like this dad in Thailand - https://thesmartlocal.com/thailand/man-watches-wife-cctv/