I hold an unconventional mindset in a conventional society which says women are to 'tone down' post marriage... I was/still am the girl who enjoys being the life of the party.. I still Im the live wire which catches everyone's attention but only invites criticism from my husband and the comment 'tone down'. What is tone down and why should I? He still is the same boring guy I fell in love with, then why do I need to behave like a nun??

i did not really tone down and faced the wrath of hubby and in-laws and society and decided to give it a shot if it meant peace. did that and lost myself somewhere, and absolutely lost my heart and mind. that is when i realized that you can never really please everyone, unless you are true to yourself and happy. i am back to being the girl i was and the woman i really want to be. i am not a 100 percent happy, but i know that i am doing what i want to do, while taking care of all other responsibilities. be yourself please....and don't lose yourself out in the crowd