I am really, rather terribly attracted to a guy from work.. he too does give subtle hints... I am a mother of a 4 year old with an amazing sex life with my husband but my mind still wanders.. And I can't control it... Any reason why this is happening-I must add here that I am very happy with my married life yet feel like straying-Pls advise

The lure and thrill of entertaining such liaisons -- very tempting, very exciting but is it worth it? If your sex life with your husband is amazing, you are happy with your family-life then it's probably a wee bit of boredom. Having an eye-candy at work is fine and dandy but think about how much you stand to lose due to some temporary boredom. If you have fantasies that need to fulfilled, share them with your husband -- chances are, he will be game to help you play it out and that way, no hearts will be broken.