I am really, rather terribly attracted to a guy from work.. he too does give subtle hints... I am a mother of a 4 year old with an amazing sex life with my husband but my mind still wanders.. And I can't control it... Any reason why this is happening-I must add here that I am very happy with my married life yet feel like straying-Pls advise

It is probably the thrill, the lure of the “forbidden fruit”. I would suggest that before you take any action, pause for awhile and think about your current life. Very often, one would be tempted to stray because of the high possibility of getting away with it. So, just consider what would happen if you don’t. The potential consequences of being caught? What do you think would be the outcome? Would that be worth risking your current happy marriage? Ultimately, the choice is yours. Whether it is simply a physical attraction or something deeper than that, whether you would want to pursue it and if it is worth the stake, these are questions you probably need to consider. Personally, I would say not to be rash and take a moment to consider things rationally. If you realized there is some deeper underlying issue in your marriage, you can consider marriage counselling as well. Regardless, make an informed and a well-considered choice so that you can answer to yourself at the end of the day.