I am really, rather terribly attracted to a guy from work.. he too does give subtle hints... I am a mother of a 4 year old with an amazing sex life with my husband but my mind still wanders.. And I can't control it... Any reason why this is happening-I must add here that I am very happy with my married life yet feel like straying-Pls advise

there are many reasons this could be happening. he is extremely good looking and has a great personality, you are bored at work and found him a good reason to come to work, you may be in a routine in your marriage, even if a happy one, and this thought of being with someone else sounds exciting. everything aside, if you do go ahead with what you are thinking about him, it could put your marriage and work both at risk. why to shake things up when it's all good, especially at home?