By keep telling you he doesn't know what to do makes me wonder is he thinking by telling you he loves that lady is indirectly checking will you accept that lady and status quo.
Some questions you may want to consider:
1. Are you willing to forgive him if he decides to let go that lady? You must move on and forget about it if you decide to forgive him.
2. If he decides to let go that lady, will history repeats? Of course, doesn't mean it will happen again. He may just lost control this time.
3. Are you prepared to lose him? No point to hang in there if love is one-sided.
4. Both of you to seek marriage counseling?
Please give yourself some time and space to get your emotions in check before making any decision. Speak to someone you can trust or a counsellor. You need support. Jia You 💪🌈
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