My husband is very firm he doesnt want a second child. He finds taking care of our first very stressful. My baby is only 8 weeks old. Will my husband ever change his mind or is he dead set. Because when I talk to him he seems very firm.

My husband also! In fact on one hand I want but on the other also scared. Had a traumatic labour. Maybe give it more time.. it will get better.

8 weeks postpartum is still rather soon, give your husband time as he's also adjusting to the new dynamics of having a baby in the family!

He will probably forget about the pain after 2 years.....