My husband thinks I prioritize other things but not having sex with him. He thinks I spend too much time "wasting time" reading or surfing and I can spend that time being intimate with him. But that's not true. Whether I am up surfing or not I am not going to be having sex with him. I am just not in the mood and I can't "force" myself to have sex when I am not in the mood. Now he's giving me big time attitude because of it which makes me want to have sex even less with him. Any advice on this?

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When I'm not into the mood but he is, I still don't mind having sex with my husband but I will make him do most of the work. Hahaha! So he takes charge and I just lie down there, doing minimal work. However, I'll make sure he is not making love to a dead log so I will still reciprocate by kissing or touching him back. Men being men, they still have their needs. So don't turn him away too often, else the marriage will be in serious problem if he turns elsewhere to get his satisfaction.

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