My husband talk to me lastnight and opened up the plan of officially taking his other child into our house . Dont get me wrong but is it okay for us ? Please enlighten me :(

Yesha thats a sensitive topic specially for your family, well its all about acceptance , the child has nothing to do with the problem that you and your husband had in the past . Maybe the best thing to do is to finally accept the child as part of your family now , show to him the love of a mother because that may help him or her feel that she or he is accepted . Its the power of love that will help you heal and accept what ever heartbreak you have in the past and totally moved on in the present.

It is a tough undertaking, Yesha. But then again, your husband is just simply being a father to the child. Sit down with him and talk to him about all your worries and concerns. Also make sure that taking the child under his custody (and your custody) has been agreed upon with the mother of the child.