My husband and i seldom see each other due to work schedule and he seldom have time for the kids. We did not have any topic to talk about even when we got the chance to talk. If he is on leave he will spend time playing with his phone. I understand that he is working hard for the family and he needs his own time to play games or see videos but i cant help feeling that my life without him made no difference. over these years he changed a lot in terms of temper and we quarrelled a lot until now we dont even care to say anything to each other. I kept asking myself if this is the man i love and if i will be happier to walk out of his marriage. I feel really lost. I held on becuz of the kids but im not happy every single day.

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How about a weekend getaway with the family where all of you can relax and as a rule, no brining of any gadget :-) You might be able to talk to him when you are both relaxed and not distracted. You can also perhaps plan a date night with him. In any case, you both will need to talk to each other heart to heart and find out the cause of this drift. It may be for him, you have changed and for you it's the other way around. I wish you all the best! :-)

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