How do you forgive a cheating husband?

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Though cheating is very unforgivable in so many ways, it is a different case if you are already married. Even on the outside, you may feel like you really shouldn't forgive, you'll end up forgiving. I think it is because there are so many reasons that you are considering--marriage, kids, inlaws, etc. You forgive because at the bottom of your heart, you still want to give him another chance. You still hope that he will change. So I suggest that you should sit down with him and set a compromise. Tell him that if he do it again, forgiving is not an option anymore.

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8y ago

That's my main reason for not forgiving my spouse who also cheated on me. He was passing the blame to my parents and to me. And he said sorry just for the sake of saying it.

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Ang hirap naman ng sitwasyon mo momsh. Pray ka na bigyan ng kaliwanagan ang isip mo at para sa mga anak mo ipagpatuloy mo ang buhay nyo. Mahirap magsalita kasi wala kami sa sitwasyon mo pero kung kaya mo naman buhayin mga anak mo sa tingin ko mas mabuting iwan mo na lang yang asawa mo na yan. Deserve mong maging masaya, maikli lang ang buhay para sayangin mo na magtiis ka sa asawa mong niloloko ka para lang mapanatiling buo pamilya nyo. Sa huli masisira at masisira lang din kayo. Maging buo ka na lanb para sa mga anak mo momsh, kayang kaya mo yan.

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My spouse cheated on me on the 6th year of our marriage. I wish I could forgive him because I really am suffering due to stress but I don't think he deserves to be forgiven because despite my faithfulness and the trust I gave him, he still managed to cheat on me. I had sensed he was cheating on me year 2011 and confronted him by that time, yet he kept on denying it. He only told me the truth in 2014. He apologized but he was passing the blame on me and to my parents. So, for me, he doesn't deserve to be forgiven.

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8y ago

My husband cheated on me also on our 6th year of marriage but I chose to stay and fight for us. Why? Love. Despite what he did, I love him from the bottom of my heart. And I learned that because he opted to seek attention from another woman (it was cheating on an emotional level, thankful, it didn't progress to physical) was that he got jealous of the kids. Most of my time and effort were towards taking care of the kids aside from work and taking care of the house. I learned to be a better wife. To not forget about his needs and give importance to QT. It depends on the gravity of the situation, I guess. Mine is just one of the samples. You just have to assess the situation before you make a final decision. God has a greater purpose for what you are going through.

Before ng hindi pa ako preggy, i do forgive him everytime he apologizes to me. But now,i dont know if mapapatawad ko pa siya if gagawin niya yun ulit. Mabait naman na siya ngayon, naffeel ko naman na nagbago na siya. Sana di na maulit yung dati. Okay lang naman magpatawad. Pero pag paulit ulit dapat pag isipan na din ng mabuti. Di na din kase healthy kapag paulit ulit. And parang tinotolerate na din kase siya kung ilang beses na din, better to stop na sa pag papatawad. Well, its on my own opinion lang naman.

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Its Okay to forgive if he's really sincere , talk to each other , kase hndi naman pag suko ang solution sa lahat. Minsan bahagi yan ng mga trials nnyong mag asawa kung gaano kau ka tatag. Patunayan nyang magbabago na sya ulit tsaka mo sya unti unting patawarin pero pag inulit nya pa ulit let him go na. Kung ayaw nya pa madala edi ikaw na kumawala, its time for you to let him go kase hndi yan maghahanap ng bago kung na kontento lng sya sayo. Kaya mo yan sis, pray lng ky god 😊 everything will be okay 😇

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Sis everything’s happen for a reason, ask why and what happen.. Communication is always the key if kaya pang i save sis save it.. Everybody’s deserve a second chance.. I’ve been fooled not once not twice pero andun pa rin ako sa “baka kaya pang i save baka magbago pa”..but then it failed.. Atleast nasabe ko s srili ko or kaya kong ipagmalaki sa iba n sinubukan ko ndi ko sinukuan at pinaglaban ko.. Meron man nagkulang at nagkamali nsaknya n un..

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Naku, yun lang boyfriend mo palang masakit nang malaman na niloloko ka nya, tapos yung asawa mo na sya. Hindi ko alam sis kung ano dapat kong gawin, kasi hindi pa naman nangyari sa hubby ko. Pero kung dumating man iyon sa akin ay hihingi ako ng wisdom sa Dios sa kung ano ang dapat kong gawin. Kasi mas makapangyarihan ang panalangin at magagawa ng Dios para sa problema natin. Ipagdasal mo nalang sis, ingatan ka nawa ng Dios.

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una talaga pnagpasa Diyos ko ang lahat, nagdadasal, inalam ko ang dhilan ng asawa ko kung bkit gnun gnawa nya, at cnbi ko dn ang dhilan ko kung bkit ganun ako, tnanong ko anung dpat nming gawin, humngi dn xa ng tawad skin, gang sa ito mag ti 3 years n ang nkraan pero wla n akong skit n mrmdaman n katulad nung nalamn ko un.. Ipnagdadasal ko p lalo, pti ung babae ksi naawa ako s babae dhil bktima dn lang xa ng kasinungalingan ng asawa ko...

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the question here is, kaya moba magsama kayo ulit at ibalik yung dating pagsasama nyo ng hindi mo sya susumbatan? if not just let him go. merong relationship na nag sa-succeed. pero marami rin ang hindi. so better ask yourself first kung kaya mo b talaga mag patawad, kasi kung hndi na. let him go, maisusumbat mo lang yan sa knya every time na mag aaway kayo which will eventually worsen or yet ruin your relationship in the long run.

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Mapapatawad ko siguro aslong nandun yung willingness na hindi na nia uulitin, and ibabalik nia yung dating sia, well mas better siguro na sia kasi sia tong nagkamali. Madali nga lang magpatawad pero mahirap makalimot, magpapatawad tayo minsan dahil mahal pa natin yun Tao & ayaw mong masira ang Pamilya mo, wala naman masama mgpatawad kung minsan lalo kung titignan mo ang anggulo and so much deserving naman yung Tao sa pgpapatawad mo.

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