How do you forgive a cheating husband?

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My spouse cheated on me on the 6th year of our marriage. I wish I could forgive him because I really am suffering due to stress but I don't think he deserves to be forgiven because despite my faithfulness and the trust I gave him, he still managed to cheat on me. I had sensed he was cheating on me year 2011 and confronted him by that time, yet he kept on denying it. He only told me the truth in 2014. He apologized but he was passing the blame on me and to my parents. So, for me, he doesn't deserve to be forgiven.

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9y ago

My husband cheated on me also on our 6th year of marriage but I chose to stay and fight for us. Why? Love. Despite what he did, I love him from the bottom of my heart. And I learned that because he opted to seek attention from another woman (it was cheating on an emotional level, thankful, it didn't progress to physical) was that he got jealous of the kids. Most of my time and effort were towards taking care of the kids aside from work and taking care of the house. I learned to be a better wife. To not forget about his needs and give importance to QT. It depends on the gravity of the situation, I guess. Mine is just one of the samples. You just have to assess the situation before you make a final decision. God has a greater purpose for what you are going through.