deal with your mother-in-law

I’m living with my MIL and I just don’t deal with her. Everything she says, it’s ear in & ear out. Have less conversations. Don’t waste your time and energy arguing if there are differences. Leave it to husband to straighten things out with his mum. But of course, if there’s something you don’t like or want her to do, say it upfront to her (and tell hubby too). I usually rant about my MIL to my mum or to my bestie. It doesn’t change the situation but at least you don’t lose your sanity by keeping the frustration inside.