impatient spouse

Listen, there has to be an underlying reason. Why is your partner so short with you? Is he frustrated with his job? Or something is bothering him at home? Instead of just ignoring this, it’s best to ask him directly. People often get taken aback by direct confrontation and are unable to come up with a creative excuse. So use this as an opportunity to get to know what is causing all this irritability. You can also share how his impatience is traumatising to you. You never know, you might actually be able to help him. If his impatience irks you too much, only you can do something about it. Meditation and exercising is another way of developing patience. So once you find the root cause, perhaps you can encourage your partner to take these activities.