How will you deal in laws who took a video of LO during bath time showing his private part despite husband and my mum who was bathing LO specifically telling them not to? My husband said he don't know how to bring it up to his parents for fear that they will be upset. I feel that even though my LO is still an infant, he has his own privacy and his private parts should not be photographed/videoed.

like u I dislike too and best part of the whole, my hub is the culprit cos he is too lazy to put a sticker over the spot. It post a danger to children if it was posted online and retrieved by some maniacs. You can talk to the in-laws nicely and explain to them the risks it will lead to if not handle with care. In our country maybe not so much of such children sex abuse... but doesnt mean it is not happening.