Not sure if you and your husband will be open to marriage counseling. From what you have mentioned, it seemed as though the main issue is not so much between you and your husband, but more about handling your family members. Perhaps having a third party can help you focus on how both of you can better handle the situation?
You can consider Singapore Counselling Service for professional help if you are keen to try: http://scc.sg/eng/index.php/counselling-services/
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