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My helper likes to comment like *oh baby so poor thing, this mommy dont do this and that for u* right in front of me which makes me uncomfortable. She touch my LO also made me uneasy. I never get confinement lady or even let her take care of the kid coz i have trust issue. i find it better to take care of my baby myself esp when he’s only a month old. Plus she’s not even competent with house work. I dont want to tell her off coz she’s older than me. Any advice ?

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I used to have issues trying to tell older folks off too, but I think after giving birth, I realised my own emotions are often fragile n so my sanity n happiness are of the utmost importance. So regardless of age, you should be firm with her and warn her you don’t want to hear her say all this nonsense again if not you’ll send her home. If she still does the same, I’ll really change helper. Don’t worry about her being older, you are paying her to help you, not cause you more distress with her careless words. So angry for you!

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