Do you have a favorite among your children?

Honestly, I always assess myself if I'm showing signs of favoritism among my kids. I don't think there's favoritism because my love for them is undeniably equal. I just noticed that I still spend more time with my first born because he is of course the more demanding than his baby sister and he knows what he wants. He always wants to be with mama.

Of course. You may love them all, but there will always be one child that will stick out from the rest whether or not you want it. I think this is perfectly fine as long as you don't make it a point to tell your children who among them is your favorite; it will only cause unwanted sibling rivalry.

I wouldn't say it's favoritism. Maybe I'm still used to spending more time with my eldest since we have been like that since he was born. And maybe I'm still not worried that my younger child would feel insecure as she's still too young.