Has anybody reached a point where you don't care what happens to the marriage anymore? The kind of situation wherein it seems like you're only together for the kid/s?

Virtual hugs if you are currently in that situation. When you say that you don't care about your marriage, does that mean that you don't want to work things out? How do you and your spouse "behave" in your house? Do you always fight? While I am pro-family, will staying together be good or bad for your kids? You also have to assess how it will affect your kids.