has anybody had an aggressive son? how did you control?
do I mellow down my 4 yr old?
he gets aggressive quickly and now and then says " i will hit you".
i know, i am to be blamed partially cos to stop his aggression i used to slap him. that was to scare him and to stop hitting.
he likes kids but does not like them to take initiative for friendship.
he opens up very slowly with new people or kids.
prefers older kids.
i give up.
i think i am the only mother with such problem. all other kids his age are not aggressive and their parents make faces.
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Apologise to him about slapping him last time and tell him you will not be violent to him again as it is wrong . Then he will learn he can't do it to others too.